so here me... 

Wanna know something your concepts about patience. 

Let's suppose I am giving you time to tell me definition of patience according to you? 

What will be your answer?? 

Well let's proceed.. I m going to tell you patience according to me. 

1 you wished for something , your whole life is a mess and you were struggling under someone to achieve that. You are telling your friends about your dreams... But when the time arrives.. Your friend who was even not worthy but got that position and you are still at the same place due to lack of resources.... 

Seeing your friend like this is not jealousy it's a hurt feeling and then you sigh and move on by praying to Allah that I am waiting for best that you have put in my way. 

This is patience.