- Embrace your shyness with humility. If shyness is negatively impacting your life, don't just ignore it; instead, embrace your predicament and openly acknowledge the need for change. Shyness is often painful and embarrassing, but fostering the humility necessary to admit there's a problem is the first step on the road to change.
- Think like a strategist. Having the right mindset is necessary to bring about any desired change. "Thinking like a strategist" means realizing that time is the most sacred and precious commodity you have and strategically thinking about the pros and cons of each approach in order to tackle your shyness most effectively. Thinking like a strategist doesn't mean consuming all the information about shyness that exists; rather, it means being deliberate and practicing good judgment as you embark on the path to changing your temperament
- Understand the process of change. Personality change is rarely easy. It is very challenging to, in essence, let certain parts of yourselves die while simultaneously bringing new parts to life. Moreover, such personal transformation doesn't tend to be linear, but sporadic and iterative. You may conquer your shyness one day but fail to do so the next. This is to be expected.
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